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Respect and Accountability in the Covington High School confrontation

Posted on: January 24th, 2019 by Eileen Kugler No Comments

The situation with the Covington Catholic School students is complex, not as simple as it once looked. In today’s climate, we want to have a clear good guy and bad guy. Either the left or right is correct. The conservatives or liberals are right. But life is complex and that situation contains many lessons. One of the lessons is these boys need to be held accountable for their own actions, no matter who else bears some responsibility. Here are my thoughts:

* There were adults who acted inappropriately. From what I’ve read and seen, the Hebrew Israelites often throw offensive slurs at people, and the students were targets this time. Did the Native American drummer give the students a reason to be afraid of him? Perhaps, but doubtful. Should the chaperones have encouraged the students to move away from a tense situation? Yes, in my book.

* I’m not a fan of the 24 hour news cycle, but I am a fan of journalism. Cable news and internet news sources report a story as it is developing, and the real story often takes a bit of time to flesh out. But the media are not at fault for what happened. They are also victims of our desire for them to feed a narrative we want — Who is right? who is wrong? Don’t give us complexities! I prefer a well-researched newspaper story to the talking heads of cable news.

* The teens need to be held accountable for their decisions. “Who care if they were wearing MAGA hats?” some have written. A MAGA hat sends a message. They didn’t need to say “Build that wall,” because their hats said it all. That hat stands for vilifying anyone who isn’t white and (their brand of) Christian. If we don’t teach these boys about respecting and learning from people who are different from them, they grow up to be the white privileged men abusing power that we all see around us.

* It was easy to predict that these boys were being taught intolerance. The valedictorian of the school, who is gay, was not permitted to speak at graduation. There is a verified picture of some boys from this school going in blackface to a basketball game where they were playing a team that included African-American students. It makes me sad that these boys will likely never have a real conversation about what happened, never be given the opportunity to think deeply about their own part in it and how they might have acted differently.

* And I believe that these boys, without that education, will grow up to the be privileged Kavanaughs, given every opportunity and never being held accountable… for any transgression or poor decision. Their families and teachers circling the wagons to protect them from any tough questions about their behavior does them, and our society, no good.

Building Positive School Climate: Needed Today More Than Ever

Posted on: December 14th, 2017 by Eileen Kugler No Comments

Are you seeing increased tensions among students? Do you hear name calling and see bullying more this year than ever before?

These are challenging times, where students hear hurtful comments in the media, or maybe at home as well. Since schools reflect our broader society, it makes sense that we are experiencing more hurtful interactions at school.

Creating positive school climate, where all students feel welcome and respected, takes intentionality. It’s more than a friendly hello as students arrive and welcoming signs around the building.

Of course, the first thing that must happen is to deal with any hurtful interaction on the spot. Christine Butson with Catholic Charities of West Tennessee advises teachers to talk with students as soon as they hear “things that aren’t right.” In her workshops for teachers, she says, “When you get punched, you say ‘ouch.’ That creates a pause and then you can talk about it.” She urges teachers to do the same when they see children emotionally in pain – take a moment and then begin a conversation.” *

But dealing with incidents is only a stop-gap. The underpinning of positive school climate is an understanding that the student body is made up of individuals with different ideas, perspectives and beliefs – and that’s a good thing.  We need to do more than emphasize how we are alike, which can be easy and comfortable. Sometimes, we need to get a little uncomfortable – helping students see that their perspective may not be the only “right” one, learning to value difference and moving away from disrespect, blame or pity.

We need to teach students to not only accept difference, but actually seek it out so they can learn from others. We need to teach them how to engage in dialogue where their goal is not to convince someone else that they are right, but to listen and learn from someone with a different perspective. That’s how students develop critical thinking skills. That’s how students learn to collaborate.

Are we all the same – or do our differences matter?

One of my least favorite classroom demonstrations – often coming up during Black History Month – is what I call the “egg activity.” A teacher cracks open a white egg and a brown egg, showing students that the inside of the eggs are the same. But is that the lesson we want to teach? I think that simplistic lesson focuses on the wrong message. We need to be willing to look for how we are different, and see that as an opportunity to learn from each other. More in my short video 

Even at an early age, students can learn to think beyond stereotypes and myths that permeate our society. Intentionally choosing books with anti-bias content is important. As Louise Derman-Sparks writes in her article on selecting anti-bias children’s books for Teaching for Change, children’s books “reflect the attitudes in our society about diversity, power relationships among different groups of people, and various social identities (e.g., racial, ethnic, gender, economic class, sexual orientation, and disability). The visual and verbal messages young children absorb from books (and other media) heavily influence their ideas about themselves and others.”

Rather than steering away from classroom discussions on topics that may be controversial, it is essential for our schools to create an environment where students learn to exchange diverse views that are based in facts. For example, far too few students learn about the complexities of immigration today, often leaving school with little more than a limited view based on stories of Ellis Island. Share My Lesson has excellent free resources on immigration for students at all levels, including a range of lessons from Teach Immigration. These can lead to rich and thoughtful classroom discussions.

Tolerance.org provides many resources, including a searchable library of diverse short texts, including informational and literary nonfiction texts, literature, photographs, political cartoons, interviews, infographics and more. Selections range from an excerpt from a book by Virginia Woolf, to speeches by Martin Luther King, Jr., to an article about Kennedy Nganga from Kenya who paints from a wheelchair. https://www.tolerance.org/classroom-resources/texts

Positive school culture is not an aside to academics, it is at the foundation of students’ ability to feel welcome and connected to school, and to their learning. In these days, it is even more important to help all students feel they are valued members of the school community who treat other members of that community with respect.

* More from Christine and other experts in my article in Educational Leadership, Supporting Families in a Time of Fear”

Eileen Kugler is a global speaker, trainer and award-winning author on diversity and equity in education. 

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How Immigrant Students Strengthen American Schools

Posted on: April 7th, 2016 by Eileen Kugler No Comments

A high school chemistry teacher engaged his students in a discussion of the relationship of science and society, which quickly evolved into safety testing and animal rights. A student in the back shyly raised his hand. “What are ‘animal rights’?” he asked. Recently emigrating from an African country to escape starvation, his deep connection to animals was based in their vital role of providing food and clothing. The rest of the class thoughtfully quieted. Many had never considered what it might be like if they didn’t come home to a well-stocked refrigerator, complete with vegetarian options. The teacher knew this was a moment of awareness that he couldn’t have taught alone. His students were thinking critically beyond their own frame of reference, inspired by a peer.

A kindergartener told a visitor that her friend would not be in class that day. Her classmate was visiting his grandparents in Korea. This young student could even show you where Korea is on the map in the front of the room. Her world view, at five, was that her friends might have family who were not born in the same place as hers, who ate different foods, who sometimes used words she didn’t understand. She couldn’t wait for her friend to come back to see what new things he would bring for show-and-tell from far-away Korea.

A young mother worried that her son would be teased at school. In first grade, he wore a baseball cap to cover his bald head, the result of the disease alopecia areata. But his head became itchy and he soon took the cap off. What happened that year and the rest of his time at this school? Nothing. Because at this school, there was no such thing as being “different” – some students sang songs in Spanish, some had freckles that came out when they played in the sun, some wound their long hair in turbans, and some had no hair. That’s just life.

Photo by WoodleyWornderWorks

Photo by WoodleyWornderWorks

Yes, this is life in schools with immigrant students. There are enrichments on so many levels because of the diversity of experiences and background knowledge. A middle school world history teacher put the academic enhancements this way: “I know I have to be extra prepared for what I teach every day because the students bring such a range of perspectives and insights to discussions,” adding, “That’s why I love teaching in this school.”

The many contributions of immigrant students go largely unnoticed. Our society values schools based on their high average test scores or the predominance of middle-class students (strongly linked together), ignoring the unique benefits of schools rich with immigrant students of every economic level. Many American-born parents with the luxury of choosing a school seek places where there are others with backgrounds like their own child, rather than seeing the value – academic as well as social – in schools with immigrant students.

Immigrant students and their families contribute to the learning of every one who is a part of that school. I know this first-hand from the experiences of my family as our children went to one of the most ethnically and economically diverse public high schools in the country, in the suburbs of Washington, D.C. They are now well-educated broad-minded adults, engaged in the world around them. And my husband and I learned so much from the immigrant families, like resilience and commitment, all the while enjoying the opportunity to share in family celebrations from a quinceañera, a joyous coming-of-age for a 15-year old Latina, to a Seik wedding with the groom riding in on a white horse.

And I know the benefits that immigrants bring to a school from my work strengthening school culture around the world over the past decade. With diverse perspectives and insights, classroom discussions become more dynamic. Students learn to question more, to think more deeply, and to collaborate effectively with those who are different from themselves. They become better problem-solvers, understanding that there is more than one “right” perspective.

Stereotypes break down and evaporate in these schools. At a high school basketball game, a mother wondered out loud why the star player was a little off. Her daughter rolled her eyes, saying, “Mom, don’t you know it is Ramadan and she fasted all day?”

But this enriched learning environment doesn’t take place in every multicultural school. Only when immigrant students feel truly connected to school will they engage in their learning and share their own wisdom. It takes hard work from the school leadership and the entire school community to create a culture of equity where every student, and every family, feels authentically welcomed and valued. As one experienced principal said to me, “When we saw an influx of immigrant students to our school, we thought all we had to do was welcome them with open arms. But we soon learned that is not enough.”

Instead of focusing on test-taking skills and fact drills to diminish the achievement gap, schools need to first pay attention to building a culture that says every student of every background has value. It requires some challenging introspection about how the school and the classrooms operate, beyond the curriculum and instructional methods.

Tough questions need to be asked. Do the “traditions” of the school mean we do it the way it has always been done and newcomers must just fit in? Are English Language Learners isolated in a corner of the school with little integration into school life? Are immigrants viewed as people who need simply to be taught the American way, with no one listening to the lessons that they can teach the rest? Are well-meaning teachers lowering expectations for immigrant students out of pity because they focus on what they may lack?

Creating a culture of equity is important to American society because of the inherent unfairness of providing some students a meaningful education and some not. But it is more than that. It is about valuing the innate ability of every child, recognizing their strengths, and helping them thrive and contribute in school and in society at large. This benefits each of us, and the future of American society depends upon it.

Parents like me, whose children were part of strong multicultural schools, know that our families were given a gift. Yet we still fight the image that a multicultural school is not academically challenging, not a good place for every student.

“How can we get parents beyond these school walls to understand how special these schools are?” asked a parent at a community dialogue I led. By sharing the truth, I replied.

Let’s break down the myths and hail the values that immigrant students bring to our schools every day. We all need the lessons that they can teach us.

——
Eileen Gale Kugler helps schools develop positive high-achieving culture that values every student and family. She is author of the award-winning “Debunking the Middle-class Myth: Why Diverse Schools are Good for All Kids” and Executive Editor of the global resource, Innovative Voices in Education: Engaging Diverse Communities. She can be reached at EKugler (at) EmbraceDiverseSchools. Follow her on Twitter at @embracediversiT

This blogpost first appeared on the American Immigration Council’s Teach Immigration blog, Immigraton In and Out of the Classroom

http://teachimmigration.blogspot.com/2015/06/how-immigrant-students-strengthen.html

 

 

Diversity Benefits Everyone on Campus

Posted on: April 7th, 2016 by Eileen Kugler No Comments

The Supreme Court is currently considering the issue of race and ethnicity in college admissions. While headlines are calling this an Affirmative Action case, it is that and much more. It will impact every student on campus.

It’s hard to dispute the research that shows that a diverse campus is better both academically and socially for all the students. In classrooms, students learn to think deeper, question more, and move beyond simplistic assumptions when they are challenged by peers with different life experiences and different perspectives. New research confirms that everyone who is a part of a diverse group is more creative and makes better decisions.  It only makes sense – if you are surrounded by people who aren’t limited by a common frame of reference, you see multiple ways to solve problems. There isn’t just one right answer to a complex problem.

On a social level, students aren’t just learning how to “celebrate” diversity on a superficial level of clothes and food. They learn to dialogue about critical issues, seeing nuances, not just polarizing extremes. They know what it takes to collaborate with people who act different, who think different than they do. They learn to be comfortable not just with those who are like them; but they develop a comfort with difference because they recognize that is when they are most vibrant.

Do colleges look beyond grades as they decide on who to admit? Of course they do. Does the band need some clarinets? Lucky Amelia for playing clarinet in the State Band. Are there lots of applicants from New Jersey, but few from South Dakota? For a college that touts having students from all over the country, the qualified applicant from South Dakota looks real good. Of course there are the spots for the legacy students, even if their grades aren’t up to dad’s or mom’s. And let’s not even go into preferences shown for someone with a great free throw or a record-breaking catch on the football field.

So where are the high-profile court cases about the student who didn’t get accepted because the spot was filled by an athlete? That’s just something we accept because there is a holistic view of what benefits the entire university. College athlete = winning teams = alumni donations and more applicants. Don’t whine if you don’t get in on grades alone because “everybody wins” when the team wins.

So why should race and ethnicity be out of the picture for a college that understands the value of a diverse campus? Why should colleges have to defend themselves from creating a diverse environment that benefits every student every day?

As the Supreme Court again looks at the value of admissions policies that consider race, the stakes are even higher than earlier reviews. I’ve been hearing from college officials for years who tell me something like this:  “We just had a racial incident on campus, something we’ve never seen before at this level. We’re not sure what to do.” In most cases, they did very little. Today, we are seeing the pot boiling over on campuses across the U.S. where students of color are no longer willing to feel unwelcome and unvalued on their own campus.

Professor Liliana M. Garces of Pennsylvania State University notes that a decision by the Court that limits universities’ ability to increase diversity on campus can increase the concerns that students of color are raising today.

“…declines in racial student body diversity can isolate and stigmatize students of color who are admitted and make it more difficult for institutions to create a welcoming campus environment for students of color.

It is not in the interest of our nation to force colleges to take a step backward and deprive their students of the lessons that can only be learned in a diverse setting. Without the benefit of diversity in their educational environment, students will be ill-prepared for the diverse workplaces that await them, particularly as our economy increases in global interconnections. Most important, do we want to deprive them the lessons of appreciation, respecting, and learning from a broad spectrum of fellow students? Let’s hope the justices can see this is an issue impacting every student, and our nation as a whole.

Eileen Kugler is a speaker, trainer and author strengthening diverse schools and communities.  An earlier version of this blogpost appeared in February 2013.

Understanding Our Diverse Students by Understanding Ourselves First

Posted on: April 7th, 2016 by Eileen Kugler No Comments

The principal considered the new student in front of her. She was concerned about  Carlos’ disrespectful behavior. “You look at me while I’m talking to you!” Mrs. Harris admonished.

What Mrs. Harris didn’t realize is that Carlos was being respectful. While the principal had been taught to look people in the eye when they are speaking to you, Carlos had been taught to be deferential to an authority figure by looking down.  This wasn’t about who was right or wrong at that moment, this was about the assumption of what is right by each person.

When I lead professional development on strengthening school culture, we explore the issue of respect because it’s such a vital part of a student’s self-concept — and the success that flows from feeling valued. We tend to think there is a common understanding of respectful behavior. But the assumption of what is respect — what is “right” — comes from our own personal culture, a complex web of race, ethnicity, family background, and experiences. This is the prism through which we see and evaluate the actions of others.

Respect — or what is “right” — comes from our own personal culture, a complex web of race, ethnicity, family background, and experiences.

Looking someone in the eye is just one piece. Many teachers will say they expect students to calmly listen without interrupting. Yet I was raised in a boisterous house where you showed you were really listening by interrupting and finishing the other person’s sentence. Deborah Tannen, noted expert on interpersonal communications, even has a name for this — she calls it “overlapping conversations.” There are many other issues that come up as teachers reflect on their own assumptions, such as what is “too close” to stand next to someone and what is considered being “on time.”

The bottom line is that every educator brings assumptions based on her or his personal culture into the school. The tough, and critical part, is reflecting on our own culture, how this created our assumptions, and how that affects interactions with students and their families.

This doesn’t mean we can’t help students understand what’s appropriate in school. But we must do it in a way that respects who they are without a value judgment based on our own prism.

We also have to consider our own behavior. We can learn from others only when we don’t assume our ways are always right. A teacher told me she realized that she expected her 3rd graders to be very organized at all times because she learned that value from her parents. But she came to see that this was an unreasonable expectation for her entire class; and, in fact, she might be making herself too anxious about organization at times.

And there are many areas of gray. For example, what some teachers consider a noisy and raucous classroom may sound like a room of engaged learners to others.

Introspection reveals how elements of our personal culture — our prisms — color our expectations every day. Did your immigrant grandparents believe it was essential to learn English and leave behind the language of their home country? Did your father teach you to always be 10 minutes early or you were late? Did your mother feel it was her duty to know all your teachers personally, no matter how busy she was? Did you grow up in a large family where teasing what just a part of daily life? Were you taught that girls who took charge are bossy? Each of these affect how you view the behavior of your students, their families, and yes, your colleagues.

Introspection enables us to understand ourselves better and thereby understand our students better. Without introspection, we assume our way is the right way, although it may just be a different way. With introspection, we learn to respect student’s ways of doing things and are open to learning from them.

How Immigrant Students Strengthen American Schools

Posted on: April 7th, 2016 by Eileen Kugler No Comments

A high school chemistry teacher engaged his students in a discussion of the relationship of science and society, which quickly evolved into safety testing and animal rights. A student in the back shyly raised his hand. “What are ‘animal rights’?” he asked. Recently emigrating from an African country to escape starvation, his deep connection to animals was based in their vital role of providing food and clothing. The rest of the class thoughtfully quieted. Many had never considered what it might be like if they didn’t come home to a well-stocked refrigerator, complete with vegetarian options. The teacher knew this was a moment of awareness that he couldn’t have taught alone. His students were thinking critically beyond their own frame of reference, inspired by a peer.

A kindergartener told a visitor that her friend would not be in class that day. Her classmate was visiting his grandparents in Korea. This young student could even show you where Korea is on the map in the front of the room. Her world view, at five, was that her friends might have family who were not born in the same place as hers, who ate different foods, who sometimes used words she didn’t understand. She couldn’t wait for her friend to come back to see what new things he would bring for show-and-tell from far-away Korea.

A young mother worried that her son would be teased at school. In first grade, he wore a baseball cap to cover his bald head, the result of the disease alopecia areata. But his head became itchy and he soon took the cap off. What happened that year and the rest of his time at this school? Nothing. Because at this school, there was no such thing as being “different” – some students sang songs in Spanish, some had freckles that came out when they played in the sun, some wound their long hair in turbans, and some had no hair. That’s just life.

Yes, this is life in schools with immigrant students. There are enrichments on so many levels because of the diversity of experiences and background knowledge. A middle school world history teacher put the academic enhancements this way: “I know I have to be extra prepared for what I teach every day because the students bring such a range of perspectives and insights to discussions,” adding, “That’s why I love teaching in this school.”

The many contributions of immigrant students go largely unnoticed. Our society values schools based on their high average test scores or the predominance of middle-class students (strongly linked together), ignoring the unique benefits of schools rich with immigrant students of every economic level. Many American-born parents with the luxury of choosing a school seek places where there are others with backgrounds like their own child, rather than seeing the value – academic as well as social – in schools with immigrant students.

Immigrant students and their families contribute to the learning of every one who is a part of that school. I know this first-hand from the experiences of my family as our children went to one of the most ethnically and economically diverse public high schools in the country, in the suburbs of Washington, D.C. They are now well-educated broad-minded adults, engaged in the world around them. And my husband and I learned so much from the immigrant families, like resilience and commitment, all the while enjoying the opportunity to share in family celebrations from a quinceañera, a joyous coming-of-age for a 15-year old Latina, to a Seik wedding with the groom riding in on a white horse.

And I know the benefits that immigrants bring to a school from my work strengthening school culture around the world over the past decade. With diverse perspectives and insights, classroom discussions become more dynamic. Students learn to question more, to think more deeply, and to collaborate effectively with those who are different from themselves. They become better problem-solvers, understanding that there is more than one “right” perspective.

Stereotypes break down and evaporate in these schools. At a high school basketball game, a mother wondered out loud why the star player was a little off. Her daughter rolled her eyes, saying, “Mom, don’t you know it is Ramadan and she fasted all day?”

But this enriched learning environment doesn’t take place in every multicultural school. Only when immigrant students feel truly connected to school will they engage in their learning and share their own wisdom. It takes hard work from the school leadership and the entire school community to create a culture of equity where every student, and every family, feels authentically welcomed and valued. As one experienced principal said to me, “When we saw an influx of immigrant students to our school, we thought all we had to do was welcome them with open arms. But we soon learned that is not enough.”

Instead of focusing on test-taking skills and fact drills to diminish the achievement gap, schools need to first pay attention to building a culture that says every student of every background has value. It requires some challenging introspection about how the school and the classrooms operate, beyond the curriculum and instructional methods.

Tough questions need to be asked. Do the “traditions” of the school mean we do it the way it has always been done and newcomers must just fit in? Are English Language Learners isolated in a corner of the school with little integration into school life? Are immigrants viewed as people who need simply to be taught the American way, with no one listening to the lessons that they can teach the rest? Are well-meaning teachers lowering expectations for immigrant students out of pity because they focus on what they may lack?

Creating a culture of equity is important to American society because of the inherent unfairness of providing some students a meaningful education and some not. But it is more than that. It is about valuing the innate ability of every child, recognizing their strengths, and helping them thrive and contribute in school and in society at large. This benefits each of us, and the future of American society depends upon it.

Parents like me, whose children were part of strong multicultural schools, know that our families were given a gift. Yet we still fight the image that a multicultural school is not academically challenging, not a good place for every student.

“How can we get parents beyond these school walls to understand how special these schools are?” asked a parent at a community dialogue I led. By sharing the truth, I replied.

Let’s break down the myths and hail the values that immigrant students bring to our schools every day. We all need the lessons that they can teach us.

***

Eileen Gale Kugler helps schools develop positive high-achieving culture that values every student and family. She is author of the award-winning “Debunking the Middle-class Myth: Why Diverse Schools are Good for All Kids” and Executive Editor of the global resource, Innovative Voices in Education: Engaging Diverse Communities. She can be reached at EKugler@EmbraceDiverseSchools. Follow her on Twitter at @embracediversiT